Femininity over Feminism!!!

Hey lovers!

I wanted to discuss a topic that is very close to my heart, masculine and feminine energies and the importance of having these energies aligned in our relationships. I met my husband when my oldest son was already an adult and my daughter was about to turn 11 years old. I raised both my kids on my own, with help from my mom. I became very independent, I was a provider, and protector. I took on a very masculine role, and out of necessity turned off most of my feminine energy. I was in survival mode, as protector of my children.

It’s not until I met my husband that I learned what true masculine energy can and should be and what it in turn does for a woman. A man in his masculine energy (true masculine energy) is a protector of the woman and allows her to be soft, feminine, sensual, and out of the flight/fight mode. I know this, because it is not until I met my husband that I was able to be my true self. My feminine energy surrendered to his masculine energy and together we created a perfect balance within our relationship. This did not mean I lost my independence, instead it meant that while keeping my independence I was able to tap into my truest purest energetic self and be the best woman I can be.

I share this personal story because we live in an age in which masculine men are labeled toxic. Society shames men and discourages them from taking on one of the most important roles they have, that of protectors of their woman and their family. We also live in an age, in which the family unit is broken, and many women are left to take on the roles of both the man and the woman in their children’s lives. It seems that female independence and feminism are considered the truest badge of honor for a woman.

What if the most remarkable thing a woman can be is feminine, soft, caring, loving, sensual, motherly, family, independent (of course), the perfect complement to her man and the backbone for her family?