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Intimacy 101
Hey lovers, Intimacy is more than sex! In my opinion, intimacy supersedes the sexual act. It is intimacy with your parter that draws you closer and makes you physically crave your person. It doesn’t even always have to involve sex but it for sure always sets the stage for a passionate night. I wanted to share some of the things I like to practice in my own relationship to build and grow our intimacy. 1. Give each other a massage 2. Dance with your partner or da
Bianca cole
Jan 71 min read
Sexy Christmas List
Hey lovers, Christmas is around the corner and it’s time to start shopping for that special person in your life. I’ve put a "Sexy Christmas List" together with some of my personal favorite bedroom must haves. This list is sure to add some fun & naughtiness to your life and will spice things up in the bedroom for both you and your lover. 1. Honey Birdette Lingerie-Classy, sexy, naughty, and versatile. Honey Birdette makes the most amazing lingerie sets that can be worn
Bianca cole
Dec 4, 20251 min read
Keep it Fun & Try New Things!!!
Hey lovers! When was the last time you experienced something new? When was the last time you and your significant other experienced something new together? If you haven’t, I dare you to do it! A new experience is sure to reignite your passion for life and the passion for your lover. Research shows new experiences may help boost your mood by increasing dopamine, may help reduce stress, increase mindfulness and presence, among many other benefits. A new experience is a great wa
Bianca cole
Nov 24, 20251 min read
Fantasies & Fetishes
Hey lovers, On my last blog I touched on role-playing, a fantasy I have personally explored with my hubby. I wanted to circle back to the...
Bianca cole
Sep 12, 20251 min read
Roleplaying Fun!
Lovers! Have you ever had a role-playing fantasy? Have you acted your fantasy out? I know I’ve had. It’s a great way to keep things fun...
Bianca cole
Jul 25, 20251 min read
A Woman At Her Peak
As I approach my 39th birthday I have been reflecting on my life and contemplating on the future. There is a part of me that feels the...
Bianca cole
Jun 6, 20251 min read
Love and Health
Hey lovers! I recently felt like I was lacking motivation to workout. Health and fitness have always been top priority on my list but...
Bianca cole
May 23, 20251 min read
Just the Two of Us: Making Time for Date Night
Hey lovers! It’s been very busy these past few weeks with our daughter’s flag football practices, Friday night games, weekend...
Bianca cole
Apr 6, 20252 min read
A Lesson on D
Did you know the first Dildo dates to 30,000 years ago? They have been around for thousands of years yet discussing Dildos is still a bit...
Bianca cole
Mar 9, 20251 min read
Authentic Self!
I’ve spent years working on this version of myself and I am extremely proud of the woman I am now. My work is not done and every day I...
Bianca cole
Feb 25, 20252 min read
Come Inside!
A few weeks ago, I shared a bit about our Pleasure Cave and I wanted share a peek inside. We worked on our sexy space for the later part...
Bianca cole
Feb 2, 20252 min read
The Beehive; A Pleasure Cave
In the early part of 2024, my hubby and I decided we wanted to create a space for ourselves to enjoy adult time. Our daughter is getting...
Bianca cole
Jan 12, 20252 min read
Goals for the New Year!
The New Year is here!!! Time for a new set of goals. I find it helpful to write down my goals. It helps me with visualization, and it...
Bianca cole
Jan 4, 20252 min read
Our Visit to Temptation, Cancun!
What an experience! It was fun, crazy, sexy, and a memory that will last us a lifetime. The resort is definitely for those with an open...
Bianca cole
Dec 27, 20242 min read
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