Goals for the New Year!

The New Year is here!!! Time for a new set of goals. I find it helpful to write down my goals. It helps me with visualization, and it helps me stay on track. I’ve set some goals for myself this year that include getting more workouts in per week and cleaning my diet up a bit more (more to come on that).

Another very important goal I’ve set for myself is on a professional level. I had been contemplating on starting my relationship/pleasure coaching business for a while. For one reason or another, I had not “pulled the plug.” My husband was a big influence in finally taking the first step and a giant leap of faith. Finally last month, we launched the website for the business. It’s a new endeavor and I am super excited to take on this new challenge. Having my partner’s support helps me feel like nothing is impossible. He’s been an amazing support system and someone to bounce off ideas with.

It's important to set up individual goals for ourselves and it’s equally important to set up goals as a couple that will keep us connected to our significant other and that will help us in reaching for new heights in our love, connection, communication, and even in our careers. Sometimes we get so caught up in our own goals that we forget to also make goals that will help our relationship grow.

I sat down with my husband to talk about some of the things we’d like to work on this year. We made a list of few things, from professional to relationship to a few fun goals, here is what we came up with:

1.        Build the new business along with continuing to work on being supportive and a positive influence on each other’s careers.

2.        Continue to work on our communication.

3.        Find a few things that we have never done before and do it. One of my ideas for this is some role play (meeting up a t a bar and pretending we are meeting for the first time) We’re open to ideas as well so please share!!!!

4.        3 trips, since last year we did not travel much.

5.        Complete our home project.

What are your New Year's resolution goals? Have you discussed them with your partner? If you need some help facilitating a space for open communication with your partner reach out to me. I’d love to help!

Love Always,

Bianca